Take jealousy for example. Remember that time your partner spent so （1) extra time wi

Take jealousy for example. Remember that time your partner spent so (1) extra time with that tall blonde at your best friend’s party？ When you mentioned it, he got angry and yelled: ―You’re always so jealous! You have to learn to trust me. He made you feel so foolish —like an insecure little girl- and you vowed you (2) jealous again.

It doesn’t work that way. Jealousy isonly a symptom, and trust isn’t the issue. Fear is. (3) you figure out what you’re afraid of, you’ll find yourself on that merry-go-round again and again. So sit down and (4) why you feel so fearful about the attentions your significant someone shines on someone else.

Some fears are obvious. Will he find someone else more attractive？ If he finds (5) more attractive, will he leave you？ If he leaves you, what will you do？ We stay in unhappy or destructive relationships and jobs for far longer than is emotionally healthy (6) we fear change. And we don’t trust ourselves to (7) the right decisions.

Goleman says (8) literate people have learned how to express their emotions at the right time and place and in the right way. They’re also aware (9) how their emotions affect others, keeping the (10) on cooperation instead of competition or compliance.

(1) A、many

B、much

C、few

D、little

(2)A、will be

B、will never be

C、would be

D、would never be

(3)A、Until

B、Before

C、Unless

D、Then

(4)A、analyze

B、analyzing

C、analyzed

D、analysis

(5)A、anyone

B、everyone

C、someone

D、no one

(6)A、when

B、where

C、because

D、after

(7)A、do

B、make

C、take

D、plan

(8)A、emotion

B、emotional

C、emotionaly

D、emotionally

(9)A、to

B、on

C、in

D、of

(10)A、focus

B、point

C、spot

D、dot